Tuesday, November 30, 2010

VISITING TEACHING

This valuable experience taught me that Visiting Teaching is not only for the sisters we visit, but for ourselves as well. I gained a very powerful testimony of that, as well as the blessings that come when we try to do what is right. Here is a letter I ended up sending to the sister we were scheduled to visit this month....


Dear Sister Allport,

Hello! I was so, so sorry to hear from Sister Tate that we had yet another misunderstanding in setting up a Visiting Teaching appointment with you. Please know how much I was looking forward to seeing you! I know the importance of the Visiting Teaching program to our Heavenly Father and have a strong testimony of the strength and love it brings to the sisters in our ward. Please accept my apology and know that you and your husband are always in our prayers!

I hope this letter finds you well and eager for the Holiday season. I didn’t want the month to pass without being able to share an interesting experience with you. A few weeks ago we had an appointment set up to meet with you and I was prepared with the message. Earlier that morning, I had prayed to know what kind of message could be of help and comfort for you. I opened the November Conference Issue Ensign to a talk by Elder Quentin L. Cook entitled “Let There Be Light!” I would encourage you to read it if you haven’t already as it gives us so much to think about in terms of how we relate and fit in to the world around us. The most touching part of the talk for me was in the beginning where Elder Cook relates a story about the Second World War. During the bombing raids conducted over London, black outs were instituted to make it harder for the attacking bombers to find a target. Lights were turned out and windows were draped with the hope of finding safety and protection in dangerous conditions.

While reading, I found myself thinking about how the world today is filled with so many awful things. Everywhere we turn, there is evil. We do so much to keep the filth out of our homes and our minds and still, at times, it finds a way in. As Elder cook suggests, it is as if we are in a blackout, constantly striving to keep the spirit and protection of our Father in Heaven in our homes and hearts while Satan is an ever-present danger. I will admit that I often feel “on guard” and a sense of hopelessness for the rest of the world, considering its present state.

I finished the article and prepared to leave to visit you, these thoughts weighing on my mind. The parts of the article that made the most impression on me weren’t very positive and I thought, “What kind of message is that to bring into a sister’s home?” We loaded into the car and as we headed out, I remembered  I needed gas. Circumstances from the previous day had prohibited me from getting it then and now I really needed gas. I said a little prayer to make it to the gas station. No sooner had I closed my prayer when I noticed the check engine light had turned on and the car was slowing down. I was on quite a large, busy road and attempted to pull off and get out of harms way. As I turned into a nearby parking lot, I lost control of the car and a portion of the front end slid into a deep hole. I heard a loud crunch and the car lurched, but then stopped short of turning onto its side. It all happened so fast, I was scared and wasn’t sure what to do other than burst into tears. I dialed my husband’s number as a woman pulled up along side me. She asked if we were okay, what she could do, who she could call in order to help. I just cried. She went into the car dealership (whose parking lot I was in) and brought out a man to help. He helped us out of the car as another man stopped to offer a tow rope he had in his trunk. A third man brought bottles of water and cookies for Ben. I was talking with one of the men, trying to think straight and figure out where the nearest towing company was located when he looked over my shoulder and said, “Oh look. Here’s a tow truck now.” I turned to see a tow truck, already loaded with another car, pulling over to the side of the road. The man jumped out and said, “It looks like you need help. I have a load already but I will stay until another truck arrives for you.” We waited only a few minutes for another truck, during which time a fourth car stopped just to make sure we had everything we needed. As my car was being pulled out, one of the men from the dealership said, “You know, I have worked here six years and you are the zillionth person that has been pulled out of this nasty hole. But never before have so many people stopped to help as they have for you today….”

Immediately to my mind came the visiting teaching message. Complete strangers, in an evil world, had just filled me with comfort and relief. And suddenly I knew the meaning of what I had read earlier. Yes, our world is a difficult place to live. But our Father in Heaven knows that. And although there are many evils which we blackout, the hope and peace that the gospel brings to each of us should never be dimmed. There is so much good to be found here and upon it should be our focus. The light of Christ can be found in so many people, regardless of religion or circumstance. The Savior said, “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in Heaven.”

How thankful I am for Elder Cook’s message of hope and light and protection, and the opportunity I had, first hand, to see the goodness in the world. I am thankful for the light of Christ and for our brothers and sisters in this world who honor it. I know my Father in Heaven loves each of us so dearly and that as we do all that we can to follow Him, his angels will strengthen and protect us.

With Love,

 Jenn


I will admit that I wasn't sure why I needed to send this letter to this particular sister- I felt a little weird doing it- but I just had to. Two days later, I had a voice mail from her. She was crying and needed to thank me for the message my letter had brought. She said it was just what her heart needed. What a powerful example of how our Heavenly Father knows the needs of our hearts and the work he accomplished through Visiting teachers!   
           

SNEAKY CHEF

This kid makes more little kitchen concoctions. All unsupervised, of course. I think that is what he loves about it, the freedom to mix swirl and mess however he pleases. Today he had the egg nog, cinnamon, brown sugar, Nesquik chocolate powder, ice cubes, and a couple other ingredients all whipped into a drink he claimed was "soooo yummy." I even saw him take a couple of sips. Then later I saw him leaning over the toilet gagging.  Apparently it wasn't "sooo yummy" anymore. Rascal.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

CHRISTMAS

Our tree went up the Saturday after Christmas. Why is it sooo fun digging out all the decorations?! Chris and I were as giddy as the kids!  Our tree is pretty much indistructable...cranberry and ribbon garlands, metal jingle bells, candy canes and kids ornaments....and we love it! Olivia put the star on the top just like she has every other year. That is one coveted perk of being the oldest child in the house and certainly one she will not be giving up anytime soon. Except now she's getting kind of big for her Dad's shoulders! He hoisted her up there though because he loves the annual tradition of making her think he's going to drop her!


Nick was appointed tree skirt duty this year and he didn't let us down!
Every year the kids get a new ornament to add to their collections and this year was no exception. Well,  except that this year they were all very fragile so they are hung towards the top of the tree for protection! Ben was with me when I bought them and he picked out a spotted turquoise T-rex for himself. Nick debuted his dancing skills at many a public gathering this year so he was given a super cute disco dancing mouse. And Olivia has become quite a baker/chef, asking nearly every day if she can make cookies or get dinner ready for the family so her ornament was a tiny glass cupcake stand with glittery cupcakes under the dome. 
fragile.....very fragile....



The next morning the kids sent their Christmas emails to Santa Claus. We found the cutest interactive website several years back and the kids just love it! This was the first year Ben could really send his own email, complete with his stamp and reindeer treat of choice. He was SO excited and animated about it all that Chris grabbed the camera....
Telling mommy just what to write
Waving hello to Santa....

Waiting for Santa to write back..

"Did you hear the jingle bells?!"

"Oh, there he is!"

"That letter is to me! I am Ben!"

Can I crawl in the computer?!


DRESS UP

Check out Ben's mean cowboy look:

A few days ago he emerged from the basement as an "Indian Ninja." A very scary and intimidating indian ninja with one tiny pink feather on his head, held on by a bungee cord...



There is no cuter ninja on earth.

Friday, November 26, 2010

THANKSGIVING

Our Thanksgiving was so much fun! It was just the five of us- I think for the very first time-and it was so relaxing! (Check out Nick's "stuffed turkey" in the photo above....he has written things he is thankful for on the front of it....The University of Utah, numbers, cowboys, eagles!)The kids had the day before Thanksgiving off from school so we made pies and listened to Christmas music and then headed to the library to stock up on good books!


Is there anything better than reading by a fire on a cold afternoon?!
We started a couple of new traditions this year, too. The first one is PIE NIGHT. We borrowed this great idea from some friends.....the night before Thanksgiving is declared PIE NIGHT and after a small dinner, all the pies get cut into and enjoyed. In our case, we had three pies for five people so more than enough for pie night and Thanksgiving and many days afterwards. The kids loved being able to eat all the pie they wanted. Here is Ben with some of Nick's pumpkin pie, topped with ice cream and whipping cream. No sugar junkies in this house....

On Thanksgiving morning, Chris went to play football with a bunch of the guys from church and the kids and I bundled up for our other new (and very chilly) tradition...a Thanksgiving neighborhood scavenger hunt. They each had a list of things to find on our walk: A chimney blowing smoke, a beautiful leaf, a family playing football, an out of state license plate, early Christmas decorations, a driveway with five or more cars, something frozen, an acorn, etc. etc. It was nice to get out early for some fresh air and the kids really worked together to get their items checked off!

Later on, Christopher "Bird Man" Smith pulled his very first turkey out of the oven. It was beautiful and so delicious!

Olivia was in charge of setting the table and she did a really nice job, too. She made turkey place cards and had us write down on little slips of paper why we were thankful for our family members and tuck them into the pockets of each person's turkey placemat (see photo). After the prayer and Nick's darling Thanksgiving poem, we read the sweet notes written by the rest of the family! It was super cute.


Nick challenging his mother to our annual wishbone contest.
I won for the first time in my life.
And I can't get this picture to rotate for anything!
The rest of the afternoon consisted of napping, the Diary of A Wimpy Kid movie, games and just hanging out with the kids. I am so thankful for these little people. And the man that loves these little people as much as I do. We are so blessed to have a warm home and plenty of food and the opportunity to enjoy such wonderful moments together. I am grateful to my Father in Heaven every day for the sweet blessings he has given our family!

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

PLAYGROUP PARTY


 Today Ben and I hosted our playgroup's Thanksgiving party.  It was super quick to get ready for and everyone had alot of fun. We read a funny turkey story, then created our own glitter turkeys and a cute turkey treat for after lunch. I made Potato soup, salad and a carmel cheesecake for the moms and everyone else brought yummies for the kids. It was a freezing cold day and it was so nice to just be able sit and visit! The kids played beautifully together, which made it even more fun!



Sunday, November 14, 2010

STARFISH OF THE WEEK

Nick was thrilled to be the next kid in his class to be chosen as "STARFISH OF THE WEEK!" He roared home on Friday afternoon, excited to tell me about it and to get everything ready to go for Monday. He had slips of paper upon which he answered the following questions:

What is your favorite food? FRENCH BREAD

What are you going to be when you grow up? I AM GOING TO WORK AT BANK OF AMERICA

What is your favorite color? BLUE

What are some of your hobbies? KARATE, FOOTBALL AND BASKETBALL

Who is in your family? MOM, DAD, LIVI, BEN, CHARLIE, AND THE NEW BABY

He was asked to bring in three favorite show-n-tell items as well. This took some thinking but he finally decided to take his state quarter collection, his orange karate belt and Mr. Manners, a white squealing monkey (that I was hoping would get stolen while he was visiting the school.)

He also had to bring in five of his favorite photos to show the class. Here are the winners:
Playing football with my little brother

Receiving my orange belt from Master Tyler

NFL Monday Night Football game with my Dad

My dog, Charlie

Playing soccer in South Dakota
 Way to go, Starfish! Glad your special week was fun!

ELF

It's not even December yet and Nick is waiting for the elf. Our elf, to be exact,  the one that showed up out of nowhere last year and caused a storm of good tidings and beautiful behavior in the weeks before Christmas. Talk about a Christmas miracle right there. I too am waiting for that elf to come and whip these little animals back into shape. Please come soon, little elf......

This letter was found near the fireplace, waiting for pick up. According to one of our Christmas books, letters to Santa need to be left by the fireplace where they will magically be swooped up the chimney and carried by the winds to the North Pole. We have tried it several times and although it generally takes a few days for the letter to leave, it has worked every time.

Monday, November 8, 2010

MR. TURKEY

For the past two years, Nick has brought home a "naked" turkey and been asked, along with the help of his parents, to dress and write a story about it. I think last year's turkey was in camoflage. This year we went with the duputy-sheriff-pistol-packing look:

"Put your gobbles up! You're going-GOBBLE- downtown!"

Saturday, November 6, 2010

ALIEN

Today Olivia and Nick were sent outside for some fresh air. An hour later, Livi came back in the house dressed like this:
Who knew a lawn bag could be used so creatively?! The front of it says, "We Come in Peace" and the ears are very carefully taped to the sides of her face....

Thursday, November 4, 2010

NICK

 This morning, while practicing flash cards, Nick had me busting up with his latest "talent"....
"This is my thinking face..."


"I know the answer.....!"

CHRIS' BIRTHDAY

We had a great time celebrating Chris' 36th Birthday this week. (Why is it suddenly feeling like we are getting old???) The kids had fun making cards and decorating for his birthday breakfast: Fruity Pebbles and Lucky Charms. No, the kids didn't choose that.....Chris did. But they were SO excited to finally be getting a large supply of sugar cereal in the house! Chris' Birthday has always been about the sugar. (Note the "surprises" on the table: a 24-pack of Dr. Pepper, chocolate covered cherries and lots of candy. That's my guy.)

He took the day off and we went to lunch at a great mexican place downtown with his parents. Then we drove out to this cute little town in the middle of nowhere that he wants to move to. Since it was his special day, I didn't have the heart to tell him he is totally and completely out of his mind...

We had planned a little birthday shopping spree for the afternoon but he was starting to get sick and opted to take a nap instead. Birthdays are good for that, doing whatever you want to!

Later on, we all went to Culvers for some yummy cheeseburgers and then headed home to make homemade ice cream. We almost had a  tragedy when the motor on our ice cream maker burned out just as we were getting started! We both went into panic mode, me especially since I had already messed up the first batch of ingredients and had to go to the store for round two. Thankfully, our neighbors bailed us out with their machine and totally saved the day. Hurray for amazing neighbors!


It was a fun day, celebrating an awesome guy! I love ya honey. Thanks for being the man of the house and the hunk of my dreams! You are truly amazing. XOXOXO

P.S. This card that Chris' Brother-in-law sent was the favorite of the day:


The inside says "However he wants to!" We laughed all day...

Monday, November 1, 2010

HALLOWEEN FESTIVITIES



Halloween was as crazy and exciting as ever this year! We had our annual Pumpkin carving contest on Wednesday night while we were waiting for Grandma and Grandpa Smith to arrive. Man, these kids get into it! This was the first year Ben gutted his own pumpkin so that was a big hit. And he came up with an intraquite design for Chris to cut out, too.....



Olivia worked feverishly to creat her design on paper while Nick managed the scene and made sure his dad was doing all the work on his pumpkin.



We had a blast. Grandma and Grandpa arrived just in time for the lighting ceremony and to judge our creations. Guess what?! All the pumpkins were winners this year cuz Grandparents are like that....


Grandma Jen brought jammies for each of them and cute reading headlamps for the boys. So stinkin cute! (Well, cute until a frantic spotlight zoomed into my room at 4am the next morning, nearly blinding me while requesting a bowl of cereal...I kindly insisted he turn off his headlamp...)


All three kids had classroom parties that were really fun. Chris and I went to the big kids' parties last week and I went to Ben's on Thursday afternoon. It was the first time I have been in his class this year and he loved having me there. He held my hand everywhere we went and kept turning around for kisses in between whatever activity he was doing. LOVED IT! All of them had Friday off so we decorated some fun Halloween cookies with Grandma Jen.


Thank you, Nick....

Ben's cookie are frosted on both sides...





Friday night was our Church's Chili cook-off and Trunk-or-Treat...
Two tough KC Chiefs



Dad in his crazy "Ute" fan costume


Mom...nice fitted pumpkin t-shirt

The sweetest devil ever


And then there was Trick-or-Treating the neighborhood......
Nick's best friend, Drew, walked with our family

Liv saw two classmates on the street

Checking out their goods

Ben's "circle of candy"

Please note that his circle of candy is composed of individual
piles of candy sorted by brand...

After picking up hundreds of candy wrappers scattered all over the house, I told the kids they had exactly three days to make their candy vanish. Sure enough, the night of the deadline, only a few less than desirable pieces of candy remained. The week-long sugar high is officially over!